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Sunday 9 August 2015

No.4 on the 'Pledge list' - Learn

So yesterday I had my first guitar lesson! I am really proud that I have made the first step towards ticking off no.4 from the pledge list as it is something I have wanted to do for many years now. If anything I'm just frustrated that I haven't done this sooner, especially as I was dating a pro guitarist that could have given me all the lessons in the world for free! 

Ever since I was younger I have always admired people playing the guitar and just wish that I could play. Everyone who knows me can describe my ideal man to you; he's a guitar playing, Irish man with the second name Jones (random I know.) I can't quite pin point what it is about the guitar that I love, I think firstly, the actual instrument itself. The body of a guitar is a beautiful shape, with beautiful hourglass curves. It's also a very versatile instrument, I have decided to learn the acoustic guitar mainly because of the kind of music I'm into, although I do love rock but my heart will always be true to the more folk type of music and of course my one true love... Paolo Nutini.

I have decided to learn with a tutor that has a regular slot in a music shop locally to me. Typical me, I did no research into reviews or anything like that, just picked the first name on google. For some reason I had mixed emotions about my first lesson. Although I was incredibly excited to get stuck into it, I also felt very nervous. I have absolutely no experience whatsoever when it comes to playing instruments or reading music etc so walking into the music store with these 'music' guys that actually knew what they were talking about and could actually play, was a little intimidating!

As I walked into the shop, I was greeted by this great big hairy giant of a man called Andy. He was about 6ft 7 with long black hair down to the arch of his back; and of course his look was completed with this thick black beard and a bikers jacket. It was safe to say that I stuck out like a sore thumb in this place. Despite his 'Sons of anarchy' appearance, he was a real gentle giant and soon put me at ease.

I was slightly concerned in having to tell him that the only experience I have had playing any sort of instrument was back in the day with my addiction playing guitar hero on the wii and thinking I was Jimi Hendrix. However, despite my initial concerns, I could not have chosen a more supportive tutor.

We started with the basics, things as simple as how to correctly sit with guitar, the correct position to hold the strings etc. I began to learn simple notes, E major and A major. I have to admit I didn't realise that playing the guitar was so complex and required such multi-tasking skills! And I certainly didn't realise that it hurts your fingers so much! I have been reassured by Andy that as soon as the callous form on my fingertips the pain will disappear, so that's something to look forward to!

I think it was my naivety expecting to walk out of a half an hour session, pick up a guitar and play like Pink Floyd, how far the truth was I!? I suppose like everything, hard work and practice will pay off. I'm a bit of a perfectionist so being out of my comfort zone does not sit well with me. In the learning cycle I am what they call 'unconsciously incompetent', the complete first step in learning something new, I am unaware of what I don't know.

Has anyone else recently decided to learn something new? Or perhaps If anyone is a pro at playing the guitar? Any tips would be greatly appreciated!

I shall keep you all updated with my progress...If they are not too sore to type that is!




Sunday 2 August 2015

The Pledge List

So here it is, the final pledge list. Usually it helps give me focus for about a week and then I give up and turn to netflix and food. But this time is different, It's out there for everyone to see (If anyone actually reads this) so I have to stick to it! And lets face it, this list is the bread and butter to my blog and I can't exactly write a blog post about netflix and peanut butter cups if I go back to my usual habits! 

Like I explained in my previous post (which I would recommend reading before this one) a pledge list helps you regroup and act as goal or distraction.

I Pledge...
  1. Style - To have one 'make an effort' dress down day a week. I used to be known for my style and as a bit of a trend setter. These days the only thought that seems to go into my outfit choice is 'Pink or white converse with my jeans today?'. Don't get me wrong, every girl needs converse in her wardrobe but it's time to mix it up a bit! 
  2. Gym -  To attend the Gym every other night at least. It's difficult with work, but up until I met titanic I was a dedicated gym member that almost had people fooled that I knew what to do in there! But I actually enjoyed it and it made me feel good, so it's happening! 
  3. Books- To read an hour a day from a chosen book. I love to read, whether its fiction, non fiction or a blog! I love the ability reading gives you to escape into another world and picture what your reading come to life. If anyone has any book suggestions then please leave them in the comments that would be great. 
  4. Learn - To learn a new instrument. I have always wanted to learn how to play an instrument, it's between the guitar or saxophone! I haven't quite decided yet but I think this would be a great distraction and also gives me something to say when that awkward 'any talents?' question gets asked. 
  5. Bake - To bake at least twice a month. I love baking and I'm actually very good at it, so why don't I do it anymore? Plus it makes me ideal girlfriend material  < ----- (Must not refer this list back to men in any way!)
  6. Save -  A massive advantage to the single life is it's cheap! I need to use this time to save my pennies for my flat deposit. I have a feeling this is going to be the toughest to keep. 
  7. Tinder - The old me, at this point would hit tinder hard! Making pointless conversations with matches despite then not being anything near my type just to feel like I was desirable to men, (and perhaps see If I could blag a free night out). Lets face it we have all being there. But not this time! 
  8. No Makeup day - To have 1 no makeup day a week. I'm thinking this will probably become a Sunday pledge! This may seem like a pretty easy task for a lot of women, but I can't really remember the last time I properly went out of the house to reveal my 'I woke up like this' face. 
  9. Blog - To keep up with this blog! Even if no one is reading this blog, I still intend to keep it update. I have always loved expressive writing and wasn't really sure in what way I could write all that was in my head down in a way that made sense. 
This is my Pledge list so far. I may add things to the list as I go along. Wish me luck with my pledge list, it should keep me pretty busy! 

I would be interested to find out if anyone else has a pledge list of their own? If so what's on your pledge list?